how to start remote debug

[Morad_AbuAql]

Hi, I'm trying to add a remote debug for Atlassian bamboo service  from Intellij ,i added command line arguments for remote JVM below :"
-agentlib:jdwp=transport=dt_socket,server=y,suspend=n,address=5005"
then i edit catalina.bat file that located in remote machine and set

::gotJsseOpts
set "JAVA_OPTS=%JAVA_OPTS% %JSSE_OPTS% -agentlib:jdwp=transport=dt_socket,server=y,suspend=n,address=5005"

but i still get Connection refused when trying to run debug in IDE ,can  some help how fix this issue and which file should i edit. 

thanks alot,
morad