We have configured email and I can send. But we want to get notified on pull/push/commit. Is there a way to configure this in our "self-installed" version.
You can't do this with out the help of some add-ons.
Check out the available notifications in Bitbucket server at https://confluence.atlassian.com/bitbucketserver/notifications-776639933.html.
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