This is not under the control of Jira DC, but the load balancer.
If those 3 nodes are behind a firewall and can't be accessed directly, there could be some rule on the load balancer which would force choosing a specific node. This could be done based on some cookie value for example.
How sticky session are configured currently? Look at examples here:
where the node id is part session cookie.
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